Graff, Virginia R. (nee Mergenthaler) wife of the late Jack Graff, beloved mother of John D. (Penny Gates) and Jeff D. (Tammy) Graff, sister of the late John Mergenthaler, dear grandmother of Justin, Jordan, and Jack, great-grandmother of Annebelle. Oct. 22, 2013. Age 91 years. Residence Withamsville. Service Private. Memorials to American Cancer Society. T P WHITE & SONS Funeral Home serving the family.